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...Be gracious in your speech.  The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.   Col. 4:5 (MSG)

 

 

 Lord, my mouth....

I remember when these kids were toddlers and we would laugh when they mimicked our tone of voice or an oft-said phrase.  They are mimicking still.  A dozen times a day I hear my impatience, irritation, and lack of kindness coming out of my children's mouths.   

Lord, make me gracious in the face of adolescent sensitivity.  Gracious at the end of a long, hard day.  Let grace be the substance that pours out of me when I am bumped and bruised, tired and worn.

Teach me how to listen to them, to hear what is not being said;  to understand their hearts behind the words and frustration. 

I pray that every time I open my mouth I'll be able to make Christ as plain as day to them. 

Teach my Your ways, Father.  I am listening.

Posted on Sunday, July 8, 2007 at 09:42PM by Registered CommenterTonia in | Comments3 Comments | References1 Reference

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    ...Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out. Col. 4:5 (MSG) Lord, my mouth.... I remember when these kids were toddlers and we would laugh when they mimicked our tone of voice or ...

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Getting down on my knees and praying with you, wise Tonia... Yea and amen.

Oh, Tonia, past my sharp tongue and straight to my heart-- I pray with you.

July 9, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterMissy K

Tonia--

I am so right there with you!

Jeanne

July 10, 2007 | Unregistered CommenterAt A Hen's Pace

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